The 2021 NOT To Do List

I am a ‘to do’ list MASTER. My lists have lists.

This year, I created a new type of list. A NOT to do list, and has been life changing.

Here are some principles that supported my journey from perfectionism and capacity to authenticity and fulfillment.

I stopped living my life according to other people’s standards – I live according to my own expectations.
I stopped being the go to person – I identify where I want to spend my time and energy.
I stopped trying to be everything to everyone – I show up for the important people in my life who need me the most.
I stopped considering asking for help as a sign of weakness – I embrace support from family and friends.
I stopped considering down time to be a sign of laziness – I admit that even superhumans need to recharge their batteries.

What is on your 2021 NOT to do list?

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